Starting a website can be a frustrating experience. The fact is it takes a while to build up content, visitors, and communication. I’ve spent time building up content at the expense of marketing and it makes me feel a little lonely. When you’re blogging your heart out and find very few comments, it can be a little discouraging.

But building something worthwhile takes time and we have to be prepared for that.

Why?

As much as people like to romanticise business and show overnight success, that’s usually not the way it works. I was reading about Sam Walton’s story recently and he said he was always amazed at how people saw Wal-Mart as an overnight success. The fact was he’d been building up his retail stores for about 20 years before it took off.

I know the Internet is full of promises of instant riches but the people that chase them end up with empty wallets and nothing to show for it. The people how work diligently and persevere are the ones that make the real success stories.

How?

If you know what you’re doing has potential, helps people, and can bring in an income you just need to keep doing it. Looking with rose tinted glasses doesn’t help, but neither does pessimism either. You need to find a careful balance between realism and faith to keep you going.

It helps to talk to other entrepreneurs and also follow other success stories. You need to know that it’s possible if you just hang in there.

Homework

Check to make sure you’re creating a real business and not just chasing another get rich quick scheme. Also have faith in yourself and what you’re doing, it’ll be worth it one day as long as you don’t give up.

I was reading Bill Bryson’s book Made in America the other day and stumbled upon something interesting. One of the chapters was about the development of advertising and showed a page full of tiny ads. For example:

I will make you a Human Gorilla
At home - In 5 days - No exercises

Emotional copy about being a small weakling that gets beaten up on the beach…yada yada yada…

Send now for amazing free book!

And this of course is followed by a form for your name and address to receive your free book. Does this format sound slightly familiar to anyone? Does it remind anyone of a free ebook offer you might find on a website? Put your name and email address here to receive xyz, called a squeeze page.

Why would this make you a slow Internet Marketer? Because the ad I’m quoting was written around 1920-30…and it wasn’t unique. So basically, we’re now using techniques on the Internet that were being used 80+ years ago in print advertising.

Now I’m not saying squeeze pages don’t work, I use them myself, but it got me thinking about where Internet Marketing is going in the future. The email opt-in is almost dead now, with the constant flood of email we receive, so where do we go next?

It just proves that Internet Marketing is really taking its baby steps now and as both technology and user behavior develops in this new age, the possibilities are amazing. I think it’s time to stop mucking around with your small business website and start getting serious before another opportunity goes flying by.

If your small business sells tiddlywinks, it may be easy to assume everyone in the world knows a lot about tiddlywinks as well.

This may come to a shock to you…but they don’t!

It’s easy when we live and breathe an industry that we just assume the consumers know what we know. The brand of tiddlywinks all the professionals use and the different air resistance factors that can affect a match.

But people don’t. So you need to teach them. And if you take a pre-emptive strike and answer all their questions before they’re asked…well you might just be on your way to building a relationship.

Why

In the physical world it’s easier to explain to a client why they should choose this product over that product. And if the client trusts you they will usually take your recommendation. If you say that X brand of tiddlywinks (really I just like using the word) is going to splinter and give you nasty thumb injuries, they’ll believe you.

The same needs to apply with your website. You need to educate your visitors so they can make an informed decision with your products. They need to walk away from the experience feeling they got the absolute best result for their time and money.

And if your products aren’t suitable for them, let them know! Nothing will impress a potential client more and gain more loyalty than pointing them in the direction of a different solution that will give a better result. Because the next time they need something from your industry…who do you think they’ll come to?

How

Write guides on how to select the best product for their needs. Teach them everything they need to know about the products they’re looking at. Those that want the information can go over it in great detail, while the rest can just get what they need and make the purchase.

Have solution assessment flowcharts, have product demonstration videos. Collect questions and make the responses into a Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ).

Homework

Choose a problem your visitors face and write a guide to help them find the best solution.

Everyone loves to watch hilarious videos of people hurting themselves on YouTube. Now you don’t have to get accepted by your local “Funniest Home Videos” show to become famous. Just get hurt while someone’s filming and post the video yourself…because everyone will have their 15 minutes.

But if you sell bandages and medical supplies…those videos could even be good content for your small business.

Because content isn’t just for padding out your website, it’s for everything!

Why

Content on your website is important, but so is content that drives traffic to your website. Content can be used to sell your products and also to keep previous clients happy.

So when you think about content, broaden your mind to include all the possibilities. Since most of us are now immune to advertising and ‘push’ marketing techniques, we need to learn how to use ‘pull’ marketing by providing great content.

It can draw visitors in like bees to honey (I decided not to use the strangers and candy analogy…).

How

Articles that don’t go on your own website are an obvious one. We’ve already talked about videos that go on video sharing sites. Guides that help visitors and could be spread around their friends.

Have a look at the content you’re already creating and think about how you could use it to draw visitors to your website as well.

Homework

Explore a content sharing site like HubPages.com or YouTube.com to see how other people are using these tools in their marketing efforts.

There is one main way you communicate with your audience on the Internet. I’ll give you three guesses what it is…

No, it’s not using a message in a bottle.
Nope, not paper cups and string either.
Yes! Well Done! It’s the content that you provide your visitor.

So you really need to get your content right for your website to succeed.

Why

Your content delivers your message to your visitor. If you want your visitor to understand your message and choose your business, you need to get it right.

That’s why so many small business websites fail. Their content simply consists of information about THEIR business and THEIR products. It doesn’t draw the visitor in and the visitor doesn’t get any benefit from it.

How

You really need to get into the mind of your visitor and work out what they want. What they find useful information and how they want it presented. Remember, it’s all about the visitor.

It’s easy to work out what visitors would find useful and start creating it. An article or blog post may be all it takes. There’s nothing difficult about it, but so many small businesses fail to do it.

Homework

Write at least one article that would help your visitors and post it on your website.

It’s been far too long since I’ve seen the ocean and this is simply unacceptable for a New Zealander. So this week I’m heading off to Lanzarote in the exotic Spanish Canary Islands.

So yeah, I’m pretty happy about spending the next week on the beach trying to get rid of some of the white that has crept over my body during the winter. I could understand if you’re all incredibly jealous as well, so please feel free to send death threats on the back of a postcard.

But the good news for you is this blog won’t be dying in my absence. There will still be posts to keep you amused and entertained…heck, you might even learn something.

So see you all in a week and feel free to use my name in vain if you’re still feeling the cold.

Getting someones attention is hard these days. Just keeping up with friends that live in the same city is difficult, let alone the ones all over the world. If we didn’t have Facebook I’d be screwed!

So the trick is once you have their attention to lock them in. Make sure they can’t leave without knowing more. My friend Mary (who I make fun of because I know she’s reading this) has been a great example of this over the last few months.

By having ‘guy dramas’ in her life, she had me completely locked in. We were seeing each other at least once a week to get the latest stories and debate the next course of action. But now the guy dramas have finished and my own dramas have taken precedence again.

Luckily she’s a lovely person so she doesn’t always have to resort to drama to get us to hang out…because no one likes a drama queen.

So how does this relate to your website? Make it gripping, make it fascinating, and tell a great story to keep visitors hooked.

Why

I really don’t think I need to point out why you should have interesting content on your website that keeps peoples attention. I’m sure we all realise that…but are we doing it?

How

The easiest way is to make sure there’s always something to come back for. Promises of more great content and a consistency around your distribution can help that. You should think about this as you create content. If you create X, what is the logical Y that people would come back for.

I’ve done this with my 7 Steps for Website Success. It was pretty obvious that more steps were coming and so people were actively checking the Members Only Area for it. (BTW I’ve finally finished them all! On to the next project mwhuaa.)

I’m now attempting the same thing with my blog posts. By logically ordering them and making that clear with the numbering I’m trying to show that there’s more useful content coming. I also try to do one every day so you know it’s here to read.

So what content can you use to suck visitors in and release it in just the right fashion to make visitors come back for more. And do you have enough quality content on your website so visitors are already browsing for hours when they first arrive?

Homework

Assess how much content you have on your website…it’s not enough. Make a commitment to create new, relevant content for your visitors as often as possible. And make sure it’s gripping enough to come back for juicy seconds.

I fell of my chair the other day when a client told me this:

“We have a newsletter mailing list, I think it has about 3000 names on it.”

What were they doing with this list? Nothing…they had STOPPED sending out an email newsletter. Quite frankly, I don’t blame them…when I saw the newsletter, it was full of ads. In fact it had 6 large ads for about 4 small pieces of useful content.

So they’d basically killed the list anyway. This left me lying on the ground crying because of all that precious money they’d just set on fire…and because I’d just fallen off a chair and it hurt.

You must keep communicating with your audience.

Why

These people have decided you’re worth talking to. Imagine you’re standing at a party. You start telling one of your best stories, I mean it’s just amazing. As the people around you start laughing at the story, others become interested and start listening. So soon you have a large group of people around you, hanging on your every word…

And then you walk away. That’s right, mid sentence, you get bored and walk off.

How do you think that makes the people feel? Do you think they’re want to listen to you again?

So start telling great stories…and never stop mid sentence!

How

If you have their email address, email them. If you have other contact details, use them. Just make sure you’re sending them something of value…and then keep sending it.

Wow…that was a complicated business strategy. You might want to go and reread that a few times to fully grasp it…

Homework

Umm…work out what your audience wants and start talking to them.

Oh…and make sure you sit properly in your chair. Safety first kids!

With visitors zipping about all over the Internet, it’s hard to get anyone to slow down and chat. From webpage to webpage they surf, instantly forgetting what they’ve just seen.

So if you want a visitor to return, you need to help them out a little. You need to get a visitor to commit to staying in touch with you, whichever way they want.

Why

If you don’t capture a visitor’s attention long enough to get their contact details, you’ve lost them forever. Sure, some might return on their own steam, but the percentages rank against it. How many times have you tried to remember some great website you found information on…but the name escapes you.

Internet Marketers have all sorts of tricks to capture email addresses and then sell, sell, sell to that list. But that’s not we’re about. If you’re lucky enough to be entrusted with a visitor’s email address, you should treat it like your own. Always offer the visitor value, never try to sell them to death!

How

The obvious one is an email capture box for a newsletter but there are other ways to stay in touch with your visitors. For example, they can subscribe to your RSS feed of your blog. This way the always get the latest information you’re publishing through your website.

[Note For those of you who don’t know what a RSS feed is, click on the orange square in the top right, then use Google Feedreader to subscribe to this blog for free. Have a play around and save yourself hours visiting your favourite blogs each day.]

And don’t forget the power of social media to stay in touch with visitors. Have them sign up to your Facebook Profile and Pages, Twitter, and other profiles around the web.

Homework

Think about how you communicate with visitors and capture their information. What other ways could you do it? Remember to give your visitors as many options as possible.

Website visitors are a fickle lot, one minute they’re reading an incredibly crafted blog about improving their website. The next moment they’re off checking their emails. Then Facebook. Then off to a website about cheese.

It’s a little ridiculous how our attention wanders.

But I sure do like cheese! Don’t you? There are so many types and flavours! Cheese should be a food group all by itself.

Umm…but I digress…

So you need to make sure your visitors go where you want them. Which is why I didn’t include a link to Cheese.com. Ok…so I’m crap at this game. Remember: Do as I say, not as I do!

Why

Your website has a purpose, believe it or not. And it’s up to you to allow your website to be successful. You do want your website to be successful don’t you? You don’t want to give it crushing self-esteem issues later in life?

Once you know what your website is meant to do, it’s much easier to guide your visitor there. You need to map out a path for visitors to take that ends at the result you want. The trick is to get all the possible random visitor paths to end where you want.

How

To do this you just have to make the result obvious and of value to your visitor. For example, I want you to remember my website and keep visiting. So I write these short teaser blog posts and give away a lot more in-depth information in my Free Members Only Area. Aren’t I sneaky!

You get great information to help improve your website and make money. And I get the pleasure of your company. Win-Win! One day I might even have time to make some helpful and valuable products for you and make some money from this website. But let’s not get ahead of ourselves…

Homework

Work out what you want your visitor to do and then see if your website’s path takes them to the right destination. If it doesn’t, fix it…